Should you caught season 4 of “The Ultimatum: Marry or Move on” and wondered where Blake Robertson stands with the girlfriend he entered the show with, Hayley Hendrich, and his partner during his trial marriage, Ashley Wilson, you’re not alone. Now that cameras have stopped rolling, and it’s months after the engagements, is Blake still with Hayley? Or did he and Ashley pick up where they left off throughout the show?
During an exclusive interview with The Blast, the fact star shares some details on what happened after the engagement and what’s happened because the reunion was filmed (and also you is perhaps a bit surprised).
Should you watched the finale of the show, you realize that Blake asked Hayley to marry him. They looked ready for some happily ever after vibes, but that didn’t last long after the cameras stopped rolling. Should you watched the reunion, you realize they are not any longer together. But what happened between the finale and the reunion? Lots, apparently.
One thing that recently broke was the indisputable fact that Blake was arrested for allegedly assaulting Hayley shortly after their engagement.
“Hayley and I communicated even after the arrest situation. She continued to stick with me and we were together for one more week-and-a-half, two weeks. We communicated until ultimately, I told her I don’t want my card on her Apple Pay anymore, and that’s sort of what made her stop communication with me,” he told The Blast exclusively.
“We went to the reunion and after we finished the reunion and he or she saw her edit, how she sort of got here across, and ever since then we’ve been in touch. For some reason she wants to maintain me blocked on social media, which I don’t think is fair, but she wants to speak with me in private and say, ‘Hey Blake, please help me out. I don’t like my edit. I need you to make me look less dramatic or crazy.’”
Let’s Talk About The Arrest…
The arrest news recently made headlines, and Blake gave somewhat more insight into what happened.
“I just did a longform podcast on that and all the main points of it’s going to drop. But just to interrupt it down into the bottom common denominator, this was a category C misdemeanor. They sort of broad term group every little thing into family violence when in point of fact, it will possibly be as little as unwelcomed touching,” he said. “In order that’s sort of the essence of it, in a way where Hayley has got numerous accountability that she must take too. I definitely do take full accountability for the things that I’m chargeable for.”
Blake said there was “physical violence” in his relationship with Hayley, and he was “on the receiving side of it on a regular basis.” He hopes that she is going to soon “take the accountability that she’s asking everyone else to take” and stop making excuses.
“The constant recording that I lived under where every little thing was said, a whole bunch and a whole bunch of times consistently being recorded by her, that isn’t the way in which that anyone should live in a healthy relationship or engagement where someone loves them,” he added. “That to me is something where I sit up for her taking numerous accountability for as well.”
After the show wrapped, the 2 managed to remain together for about 4 to 5 months.
What About Blake And His Trial Marriage Partner, Ashley?
Blake and Ashley bonded during their trial marriage, but there have been also numerous distractions and chaos with Killian (Ashley’s boyfriend) and Hayley that derailed their experience in some ways.
When asked if Blake continues to be in touch with Ashley, he said they’ve spoken.
“I talked to her like three days ago and he or she said she desired to be there to assist support me throughout every little thing,” Blake revealed. “So yeah, we’ve been in touch.”
So far as the remainder of the forged, Blake said he’s also spoken to Killian, Jebin, Edris, and Jessica Grace. While Blake and David were great friends on the show, he hasn’t really spoken to him because the show.
“David and I were obviously best friends on the show, and on account of Hayley and I’s falling out, he and Casey have sort of gone their very own separate ways to remain out of the drama of all of it, which I respect,” he said. “Then Luke and Monica are only sort of solo out in California.”
The ‘Fearless Foursome’ On ‘The Ultimatum’
Known as the “fearless foursome” by host Vanessa Lachey, Blake, Hayley, Killian, and Ashley had many interactions that weren’t seen on camera.
“There’s a lot behind the scenes that I can’t wait to only open up more about,” he told The Blast. “We actually were like this fearless foursome that you realize, I actually don’t feel like got to be explored in a way.”
Blake shared that he and Killian got into “so many arguments where we went at it.” And so far as the infamous “group chat,” many have asked Blake why he didn’t arise for Hayley, and he said there’s lots that wasn’t shown on camera.
“Certainly one of the things that wasn’t shown is I actually went over to Killian’s apartment and him and I had a full on conversation for an hour where we just went backwards and forwards,” Blake shared. “And you realize I used to be just getting in his face and he was getting in mine. In order that was ignored.”
The Best And Worst Parts Of Filming ‘The Ultimatum’
As with all experience, there’s all the time something that stands out as the very best and the worst part. For Blake, the very best parts were a number of the things the viewers didn’t get to see.
“They don’t tell us what to say, but they offer us good prompts, like they might give us somewhat sheet that may ask us questions we haven’t considered before that is perhaps good inquiries to ask your current partner or trial marriage partner. Simply to sort of get deeper. I feel that was great,” Blake shared. “After which attending to experience the town of Las Vegas as well in its entirety. Ashley and I on the show had some really cool dates. I feel attending to go drive the boat on Lake Las Vegas was numerous fun.”
He added that living the “single life” again before going back to his relationship was an interesting a part of the experience. So far as the worst part, Blake said it’s all about your flaws.
“Your flaws are heightened. You understand every little thing that I did that I’m not pleased with, similar to the conversations with Ashley or the breakup, or you realize Hayley and I’s arguments. Those are placed on blast,” he said. “And also you get to listen to numerous people’s opinions on what they might have done in your shoes, which in fact, they don’t understand what you’re going through on the time, nor they’ve never been in it. Just seeing your life on public display and possibly your flaws. That’s something that’s a bit tough.”
He also shared that it was a terrific experience living at Ariva Serviced Residences in Southwest Las Vegas, noting that he enjoyed the amenities, mountain views, and being so near so many great things in Sin City.