On the subject of speaking her truth, Jania Meshell never holds back. The social media star recently sat down for a brand new YouTube Q&A where she got real about love, independence, and what she’s now not willing to tolerate. And let’s just say, she had loads to get off her chest.
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Jania Gets Real About Dejounte Murray & Their Relationship History
Jania Meshell got real about her past relationship with Dejounte Murray, revealing that she often felt like she needed to “dull” herself to make things work. The influencer admitted that due to her outgoing personality and his quieter nature, people on the skin didn’t all the time think they were a great match — though she reminded fans that what they see online doesn’t all the time reflect who someone truly is behind closed doors.
She went on to share how dating someone with money “shifted” her mindset, making her realize the importance of staying independent and maintaining her own identity. Moreover, Jania opened up about her pattern of moving into relationships and only specializing in her profession again once things ended. But this time around, she desires to all the time have her own thing going and proceed making moves for herself.
Jania Talks Co-Parenting With NBA YoungBoy & Red Flags
Jania also opened up about co-parenting with NBA YoungBoy, saying their routine is surprisingly easy and drama-free. YoungBoy simply reaches out when he desires to spend time with Kacey, handles the pickup, and later brings their son back home. On the subject of dating again, though, Jania said the most important red flag she’ll never overlook is “control.” She explained that growing up and not using a father made her once confuse control with care, but now she knows the difference. And, she’s focused on keeping her peace, her freedom, and her independence.
The TL Sound Off On Jania’s Grown Woman Moves
One Instagram user @mswhootyboo said, “She’s grown up a lot. I really like this for her.“
This Instagram user @kimorarb added, “She’s young, not married so if she wants to hang around along with her friends, she will be able to try this“
And, Instagram user @shesb0mb_ shared, “Those that get it, get it! Love this for her ❤️👏”
Meanwhile, Instagram user @itisdes wrote, “why will we care about this? is that this really our business???“
While Instagram user @tyshema15 commented, “Maturing is realizing that’s she is ✅️”
Finally, Instagram user @1greedyass_dolla said, “Just say you wasn’t able to be a wife 😂😂😂😂”
She Already Set The Record Straight On Dejounte Murray
It looks like things between Jania Meshell and Dejounte Murray just got real messy online. After the NBA star accused her of selecting the club life over their relationship, Jania hopped on Instagram to set the record straight. She called out what she described as double standards and emotional neglect, saying it was unfair for him to complain when she and her kids were flying out every weekend to go to him in Vegas for months.
Jania opened up about how the situation took a toll on her mental health, thanking her grandmother for stepping in to assist when things got rough. She also clapped back at his parenting comments, claiming she’s the one who handles a lot of the childcare, saying, “When have you ever ever had Ice by yourself?” The influencer went on to say she “literally cried at dinner” trying to speak her feelings but felt ignored, even calling him a narcissist. Despite all of the drama, Jania ended her post on a bittersweet note, reminding him that she supported him through every part — but admitted that in her pregnancy and after, “you proved you didn’t like me.”
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