{"id":297206,"date":"2026-03-03T07:30:20","date_gmt":"2026-03-03T02:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/?p=297206"},"modified":"2026-03-09T10:59:42","modified_gmt":"2026-03-09T05:29:42","slug":"manager-terminates-worker-during-a-meeting-ask-hr-bartender","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/2026\/03\/03\/manager-terminates-worker-during-a-meeting-ask-hr-bartender\/","title":{"rendered":"Manager Terminates Worker During a Meeting \u2013 Ask #HR Bartender"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"wp-block-yoast-seo-estimated-reading-time yoast-reading-time__wrapper\"><span class=\"yoast-reading-time__icon\"><\/span><span class=\"yoast-reading-time__spacer\" style=\"display:inline-block;width:1em\"><\/span><span class=\"yoast-reading-time__descriptive-text\">Estimated reading time: <\/span><span class=\"yoast-reading-time__reading-time\">3<\/span><span class=\"yoast-reading-time__time-unit\"> minutes<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I read this note in an internet group and couldn\u2019t resist the chance to share some thoughts. Try the situation below. I did some editing to remove any identifying remarks.\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><em>My manager scheduled an emergency all-hands meeting, wouldn\u2019t say what it\u2019s about. All of us show up pondering it\u2019s something necessary. They spent 20 minutes publicly calling out my coworker for \u2018performance issues\u2019 before firing them in front of everyone. Just stood there and tore into them while all of us watched.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>The person was crying by the tip. We were all very uncomfortable, but no one knew what to do. Afterward my manager acted prefer it was totally normal and went back to their office.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I\u2019ve never seen anything like this. Is that this normal? It felt like an influence trip greater than anything. Now everyone\u2019s on edge wondering in the event that they\u2019re next.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>I don\u2019t consider this example is the norm. And if this isn\u2019t unusual \u2026 it ought to be.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Mandatory ought to be reserved for necessary situations.\u00a0Regular readers of HR Bartender know I\u2019m not a fan of creating all the pieces mandatory.\u00a0Organizations should give you the option to elucidate why something is vital (i.e., mandatory) and\u00a0<strong><em>employees should wish to attend<\/em><\/strong>. Making all the pieces mandatory can come across as \u201cbecause I said so\u201d and employees don\u2019t get the advantage of understanding the worth.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Performance issues ought to be discussed in private. Managers mustn&#8217;t humiliate employees publicly. Period. They don\u2019t wish to be humiliated by their boss in a gathering, so that they shouldn\u2019t do it to anyone else. That being said, I could see a situation where the team makes a mistake and the manager says, \u201cI\u2019m not calling this meeting to spread blame. We do must determine what went flawed.\u201d\u00a0Not the identical as public humiliation.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Terminations ought to be handled with respect. Even when an worker does something very flawed they usually\u2019re going to get fired, their departure ought to be handled with respect. That doesn\u2019t absolve anyone of being held accountable. You&#8217;ll be able to hold someone accountable and be respectful at the identical time. How an individual leaves the organization sends a message to everyone concerning the company culture.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know the scale of the corporate mentioned above or in the event that they have an HR skilled on staff. I do know that even when an worker did something really flawed, this shouldn\u2019t have happened as described. I\u2019m sure lots of employees went home and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/the-hr-bartender-show\/id1551396110?i=1000507037703\">began searching for latest jobs<\/a>. Because they don\u2019t wish to be next.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>One other thing. I won\u2019t defend the manager\u2019s activity. They were flawed to humiliate and publicly terminate an worker. <strong>The organization must take some responsibility for creating an environment where a manager thought this was acceptable behavior.<\/strong> I\u2019m not na\u00efve. We\u2019ve\u00a0<s>probably<\/s>\u00a0all had days once we thought snapping back at a mean comment would feel glorious. But we keep those thoughts to ourselves. Possibly we go axe throwing to release some frustration. Actually carrying out the act of calling a compulsory meeting, berating an worker, etc. took some thought. And I actually have to assume that nowhere within the manager\u2019s thoughts did they ask themselves, \u201cWould the organization support this? Is that this going to be perceived badly?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As working professionals, all of us have bad days.\u00a0Find\u00a0<em>acceptable<\/em>\u00a0activities to assist cope with those bad days. And organizations, be sure that that managers get the training and support they need so situations like this don\u2019t occur. Because in the event that they do, it should take an extended time to get well trust \u2013 in the event that they ever had it.<\/p>\n<p>Image captured by Sharlyn Lauby while exploring the streets of Seattle, WA<\/p>\n<p>The post Manager Terminates Worker During a Meeting \u2013 Ask #HR Bartender appeared first on hr bartender.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Estimated reading time: 3 minutes I read this note in an internet group and couldn\u2019t resist the chance to share some thoughts. Try the situation below. I did some editing to remove any identifying remarks.\u00a0 My manager scheduled an emergency all-hands meeting, wouldn\u2019t say what it\u2019s about. All of us show up pondering it\u2019s something [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":297207,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[8752,455,550,7165,20135],"class_list":["post-297206","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-career-growth","tag-bartender","tag-employee","tag-manager","tag-meeting","tag-terminates"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/297206","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=297206"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/297206\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":297209,"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/297206\/revisions\/297209"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/297207"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=297206"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=297206"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=297206"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}