{"id":348175,"date":"2026-06-09T17:27:03","date_gmt":"2026-06-09T11:57:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/?p=348175"},"modified":"2026-06-09T17:27:04","modified_gmt":"2026-06-09T11:57:04","slug":"who-is-lilly-jay-5-things-to-know-about-ethan-slaters-ex-wife-hollywood-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ebiztoday.news\/index.php\/2026\/06\/09\/who-is-lilly-jay-5-things-to-know-about-ethan-slaters-ex-wife-hollywood-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Who Is Lilly Jay? 5 Things to Know About Ethan Slater\u2019s Ex-Wife \u2013 Hollywood Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<figure class=\"entry-media edge-to-edge entry-media--lead-image\" aria-describedby=\"lead-image-credit\">\n<div class=\"image-wrapper image-wrapper--widescreen\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div><figcaption id=\"lead-image-credit\">Image Credit: Getty Images for Nickelodeon<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><!-- .entry-media --><\/p>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-2\">In 2023, <strong>Ethan Slater<\/strong> split from his wife of 5 years, <strong>Lilly Jay,\u00a0<\/strong>following reports that the Tony-nominated actor was dating his\u00a0<em>Wicked\u00a0<\/em>co-star and now-ex-girlfriend <strong>Ariana Grande<\/strong>. The news about Ariana and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/ethanslater\/?hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-analytics-trigger=\"article-body-link\">Ethan<\/a>\u2018s romance emerged on July 20, 2023. On July 26, 2023, Ethan filed for divorce from Lilly in Latest York, based on documents obtained by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tmz.com\/2023\/07\/26\/ariana-grande-boyfriend-ethan-slater-file-divorce-wife-lilly-jay\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-trigger=\"article-body-link\"><em>TMZ<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-3\">After <em>Wicked<\/em> was released in theaters, Lilly broke her silence over her public divorce in an essay published by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/article\/lilly-jay-divorce-essay-therapy.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" data-analytics-trigger=\"article-body-link\"><em>The Cut<\/em><\/a>. Without naming Ariana, Lilly opened up in regards to the \u201cpublic downfall of [her] marriage.\u201d<\/p>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-4\">\u201cSlowly but surely, I actually have come to consider that within the absence of the life I planned with my highschool sweetheart, a lifetime of sweetness is waiting for me and my child,\u201d Lilly wrote. \u201cNobody gets married pondering they\u2019ll get divorced, in the identical way we don\u2019t board a plane expecting to crash. But I actually never thought I&#8217;d get divorced. Especially not only after giving birth to my first child and particularly not within the shadow of my husband\u2019s latest relationship with a celeb.\u201d<\/p>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-5\">Lilly emphasized that she simply misses the \u201clifetime of invisibility\u201d that she \u201ccreated for [herself] as a psychologist specializing in women\u2019s mental health.\u201d<\/p>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-6\">Discover more about Lilly and her relationship with Ethan here.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5355611\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5355611\" style=\"width: 683px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5355611 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/hollywoodlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/GettyImages-971260216.jpeg?quality=100&#038;w=683&#038;resize=683%2C1024\" alt=\"Lilly Jay: 5 Things to Know About Ethan Slater's Ex-Wife\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5355611\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">(Photo by Jenny Anderson\/Getty Images for Tony Awards Productions)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2>Lilly &#038; Ethan Were High School Sweethearts<\/h2>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-7\">While Lilly and Ethan got married of their 20s, they were actually together from a much younger age. It was revealed that they were highschool classmates in a 2018 story about Ethan starring within the\u00a0<em>Spongebob Squarepants Musical\u00a0<\/em>on Broadway, per\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/moco360.media\/2018\/04\/02\/showstopper\/\" rel=\"nofollow\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-trigger=\"article-body-link\"><em>MoCo 360.\u00a0<\/em><\/a>The pair were engaged on the time. The Drama Desk Award winner revealed that they\u2019d been dating since 2012 in an Instagram post in November 2022. \u201cMy best friend. 4 years married, 10 years together,\u201d he wrote within the tribute.<\/p>\n<h2>Lilly &#038; Ethan Got Married in 2018<\/h2>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-8\">After six years together, Lilly and Ethan tied the knot in 2018. On the time, Ethan was starring in\u00a0<em>The Spongebob Musical\u00a0<\/em>because the title character. He also made occasional TV appearances on the time in shows like\u00a0<em>Law And Order: Special Victims Unit<\/em> and\u00a0<em>The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel.\u00a0<\/em>Lilly had also been his date to loads of red carpet events, just like the 2018 Tony Awards, where he was nominated for Best Actor In A Musical.<\/p>\n<h2>Lilly &#038; Ethan Have a Son Together<\/h2>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-9\">After 4 years of marriage, Lilly and Ethan welcomed their son together in August in an Instagram post with a photograph of a \u201cWicked Cute\u201d onesie. In May 2023, he paid tribute to his wife on Mother\u2019s Day. \u201cCompletely satisfied first Mother\u2019s Day to essentially the most loving caring and wonderful mom\/person on the earth, from me and this little guy,\u201d he wrote on Instagram.<\/p>\n<h2>Lilly Studied Psychology<\/h2>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\" data-width=\"500\" data-dnt=\"true\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">After nearly 5 years of exertions, a whole bunch of hours researching and writing over 200 pages value of paradigm shifting thought in the sector of psychology, my wife finally defended her dissertation. I&#8217;m so pleased with her, and can&#8217;t wait to introduce her at parties as kiddo.<\/p>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-10\">\u2014 Ethan Slater (@ethansaslater) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ethansaslater\/status\/1338701714992422912?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-trigger=\"article-body-link\">December 15, 2020<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-12\">While Ethan mostly kept his relationship with Lilly private, he did <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/ethansaslater\/status\/1338701714992422912\" target=\"_blank\" data-analytics-trigger=\"article-body-link\">tweet<\/a> congratulations for her after she accomplished work toward a psychology degree in December 2020. \u201cAfter nearly 5 years of exertions, a whole bunch of hours researching and writing over 200 pages value of paradigm shifting thought in the sector of psychology, my wife finally defended her dissertation. I&#8217;m so pleased with her, and can&#8217;t wait to introduce her at parties as kiddo,\u201d he wrote.<\/p>\n<h2>Lilly Addressed the Reports About Ethan &#038; Ariana<\/h2>\n<p id=\"content-paragraph-13\">Lilly broke her silence about Ethan and Ariana\u2019s romance on July 27, 2023. \u201c[Ariana\u2019s] the story really. Not a lady\u2019s girl. My family is just collateral damage,\u201d Lilly said. On the time, she also said, \u201cThe story is her and Dalton,\u201d speaking about Ariana and her estranged husband <strong>Dalton Gomez<\/strong>. Lily also told\u00a0<em>Page Six\u00a0<\/em>that she was focused on being \u201c mom\u201d to her and Ethan\u2019s son.<\/p>\n<p><!-- CONTENT END 1 -->\n\t\t<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Image Credit: Getty Images for Nickelodeon In 2023, Ethan Slater split from his wife of 5 years, Lilly Jay,\u00a0following reports that the Tony-nominated actor was dating his\u00a0Wicked\u00a0co-star and now-ex-girlfriend Ariana Grande. The news about Ariana and Ethan\u2018s romance emerged on July 20, 2023. 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