Jerry O’Connell is breaking down wife Rebecca Romijn’s response to John Stamos detailing their past relationship in his candid memoir, If You Would Have Told Me.
“Getting back to Rebecca Romijn and John Stamos’ relationship, my wife was very upset that John Stamos wrote a memoir — which was riveting. It’s terrific. I’m sure you possibly can get it. But there was a chapter in regards to the demise of their marriage,” O’Connell, 52, said on the Monday, July 20, episode of SiriusXM’s “Let’s Talk Off Camera With Kelly Ripa” podcast.
He continued, “And it really upset my wife that he put that in there. Now, in the event you’re gonna write a memoir and also you’re John Stamos, you gotta put that in there, you recognize?”
Host Kelly Ripa chimed in to notice that “people wanna examine that part.”
“Did he send her the chapter involving her before the book got here out?” Ripa, 55, asked, to which O’Connell coyly replied, “That’s as much as my wife to inform you. I don’t consider he did but that’s as much as my wife to inform you if my wife had a heads-up. I don’t consider my wife had a heads-up.”
The actor shed more light on the topic after he and Stamos, 62, saw one another at Howie Mandel‘s birthday celebration in November.
“John Stamos was at this party and I used to be like, ‘I got to make a beeline for [him]…I got to go extend my hand,’” O’Connell told Andy Cohen on Radio Andy in June, revealing there didn’t appear to be any lingering tension. “I said, ‘Hey man, how are you? It’s so good to see you.’”
Stamos and Romijn, now 53, began dating in 1994 before getting engaged three years later. The couple tied the knot in 1998, but had tensions of their marriage — at the very least, based on Stamos’ 2023 memoir.
“As I’m lifting Rebecca up, I’m losing myself,” Stamos wrote, claiming there have been “toxic friends” in Romijn’s circle who had a powerful influence. “She makes it clear that I’m the TV guy and she or he’s the newly minted star. … Somewhere deep inside, I begin to consider it.”
Stamos recalled facing “ups and downs” during their marriage, noting that that they had “zero speak about having kids and starting a family” despite that “all the time” being their plan. In his perspective, Romijn was too “busy along with her profession and recent friends” to note that Stamos was “slipping away.” He went on to hint at “something cruel and calculating” infiltrating their once “nice” relationship.
“She smiles at me somewhat less, doesn’t look me within the eyes over dinner, takes phone calls in the opposite room. … Betrayal starts as a sinking feeling in your stomach, grows right into a suspicion that clouds your every thought, and by the point you discover out the reality, it’s uniquely horrible at first but additionally expected, such as you’ve been waiting for something bad to occur,” he wrote. “There’s nothing more to say. There’s some extent of no return, and what felt like a phase is now her phasing me out for good.”
Stamos and Romijn quietly separated in 2003, going public with their split the next 12 months. He filed for divorce in 2004 and the proceedings were finalized one 12 months later. (A rep for the exes previously denied cheating played a job of their breakup.)
Romijn moved on with O’Connell, whom she wed in 2007. The couple welcomed twins Dolly and Charlie in 2008. Stamos, for his part, has since wed Caitlin McHugh, and the pair share son Billy, 8.
After Stamos’ book release, Romijn broke her silence on seeing their relationship fallout described throughout the pages.
“I used to be very surprised by all of that, incredibly shocked actually,” Romijn told Entertainment Tonight in 2024. “I used to be kind of blindsided by it. But you recognize, I don’t really need to assist him sell his books based on those headlines. In order that’s all I really need to say about it.”




